Boyfriends and girlfriends
Some relationships become more than just friendships. You might find that you’ve got strong feelings for someone of the opposite or the same sex and you become an ‘item'. Having a boyfriend or a girlfriend can be very exciting – but it can also cause tensions and jealousies with family and friends.
People around you – especially those who’re close to you - may feel concerned about the amount of time you’re spending with your boyfriend or girlfriend or they may feel that “the love of your life” just isn’t suited to you for whatever reason. They may feel that you’re neglecting them or your studies, or letting your heart run away with your head!
If you find yourself in this situation, you might want to talk things over. Remember, your Connexions Personal Adviser is always there to lend a listening ear. We can offer you information and advice on all aspects of relationships.
It’s OK to be single
If your mates are all starting to get boyfriends or girlfriends, you may start to feel a bit left out. But being single doesn't mean you can't have fun. A great way of meeting new people is to join organisations, groups or start a hobby. Why not check out the Free time section to find out what’s going on in your area.
Who can I talk to?
If you want more information and advice about relationships or relationship problems, your Connexions Personal Adviser in school or college or at your local Connexions Centre is there to help.
You can also find lots of information on relationships and links to other useful sites at www.connexions-direct.com
